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for the past year i have become very fond of a guy that i will call lo. about 2 months ago i started to have feelings about him and i started slowly to let him know thank goodness without having sex. i have seen him less and less since i let him know. he has not called me in a while. so i let 2 weeks go by and then me and my twins were at the local convenience store and there he was and he came up to me and asked me where i had been and i told him school had started back and i had been busy with the kids. so i said he had something to tell me and that he would call me. he hasn't called yet so i have tried to call him several times for the mere reason i really would like to know what he has to tell me. he won't answer his house phone or cell phone. can you give me some idea of what i might do to
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I will start by giving you a pat on the back from afar. A lot of young ladies (and not so young ladies) think of sex as a term of endearment instead of what it truly is: a way to show love between two people who mutually feel that way. So good for you!
As for this guy...
Does he attend school also, or have a time consuming job? If the answer is yes, it may just be that he is a very busy guy. If the answer is no, then I regret to inform you, he isn't worth your time. If he sits around and does nothing all the time, then he has plenty of time to pick up the phone as he said he would.
If he said he had something to say to you and that he would call, I would wait on him to call you, as nerve racking as that is. To keep calling him may turn him away, due to the fact he may see you as being persistent and desperate. He knows your interest in him, don't worry about that.
It may be that he has something personal to say to you that he doesn't want those around him to hear. And it may be that when you call, some one is around him, making it an inopportune moment to chat.
However, if he doesn't call you within 2 weeks from the time he said to you he would call, then I would say he is stringing you along. A person, no matter how busy, has enough spare time in 14 days to make a personal, private phone call.
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