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i dont know if i should go out with him or not
omg. the other day ifound out that my friend likes this kid that ive liked for ever. she asked him out and said no. he also called her a fat pig. he also likes me but i dont know what to do.
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Well foremost you should try talking to your friend and she how she feels with what he said to her. Try to tell her it wasn't meant-to-be anyway if he would turn her down like that. But also ask her to it's OK for you to go out with him. Or you can go hypothetical and say, "well.. what if I went out with him? Would you mind? If so, why?" If she does mind or not, tell her guys shouldn't affect a friendship. A true friend would may be a little upset that you asked but would trust you and agree to let you date him. Also try to tell her that you liked him for quite a while, and tell her that he has liked you for awhile. Don't say it directly, because then she'll think you are being rude about it.
Don't ever go behind her back and go out with him, while your friend does not know. Your friend will go through more heartbreak and betrayel. Be open and honest with her, and agree that you can probably find a guy she can date, so it can go well.
However, try to give her some time before you ask her if she is one of those sensitive kind of people. If she is more easy-going, then you should have not much of a problem with asking. But be sure to be nice and empathetic about it.
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