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Thank you for your advice. I would just like to correct you, lucky I did not sleep with her and the married man did also not sleep with her. I know that she has a mental problem. In a way I feel quilty that I did not sleep with her because maybe that is the reason for her actions. It sounds stupid of me thinking that but I don't like hurting people, and in a way I do adore her, reason for that I can't say. Just don't get me wrong I will never sleep with her because once I do that she will think I'm hers and I'm not a lesbian. Sometimes I just wish I never meet her but could it be that GOD put her on my road for a reason.
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I don't know. I do think things happen for a reason.
I don't think your not sleeping with her is causing her the problems she is having. I think they were there before she ever met you. As a matter of fact, if you had slept with her it might very well have been worse than it is now. I think you did the right thing.
It doesn't sound stupid. I am very much that way myself. I think your friend is a very depressed woman. Maybe you were put in her path to try and get her to get help. Talk to her. Tell her that while she thinks suicide is the answer it isn't. Her kids would have to live with that the rest of their lives. Whoever found her would have to live with it. Her friends who couldn't hep would have to live with it. She would be hurting all those she cares for.
Help her all you can but do not let what she does
ruin your life. Its very easy to get so wrapped up in someone else's problem that you yourself get depressed.
I wish you the best of luck. If you have any other questions or just want to talk feel free to. My email address is also on my column if you feel more comfortable using it. Just put advicenators in the subject line. :)
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