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what should i do about this?
i really like this guy and we have been going out for a while. the furthest we have gotten was fingering me. everytime we do something after i feel guilty. during it i feel fine and enjoy it. i feel like my parents and friends and family think im all innocent making me feel guilty what should i do?
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Sexual activity is always the choice of the individuals involved. Strong feelings of guilt can be for a number of reasons, but it sounds as if you're worried because you aren't being honest with your family or friends.
As far as that goes, sexuality is something many people choose to keep to themselves. As long as you are playing safe and not doing anything to hurt yourself or anyone else, that's fine - keep it to yourself! It's your body and your relationship, and if you feel you are at a point where you are physically and emotionally ready to engage in sexual activities, then worrying about what other people might say can only confuse the issue.
Of course, part of you might agree with whatever it is you think your parents or friends might say. You might want to think carefully about how you really feel about these issues. It's normal to enjoy activities as they are happening - the body is hardwired that way. Think about your feelings when you AREN'T in the middle of getting hot and heavy. Whatever decision you make, you have to live with.
I with you the very best.
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