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help plz


Question Posted Sunday January 7 2007, 2:10 am

Hi
I need help.
I like this guy, who apparently HATES Me.
He hated me at one point and then he randomly started talking to me one day and he said he DIDNT hate me anymore,but after that one conversation we never talked.
Then we had my friend talk to him, and he said he hated me and thought i was ugly, fat, dumb etc.
Then she asked him questions that we knew the answer too [the questions were about us] and he acted like he had no idea what was going on and he acted clueless.
The reason he hates me so much is becuase we used to do things [if ya know what i mean] and then people found out and so on , so i could understand him lying about that but we used to be good friends and he said that we were never even friends and he hates me so much.
Yet he told me he doesnt and i dont understand.
But at the same time, my friend that talked to him ,is the girl he likes.. best friend.
Please help!
Sorry if this was so long

15/f


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The_MoUsY_spell_checker answered Sunday January 7 2007, 3:41 am:
You said he likes your friend? Then I think he wants to make sure that your friend knows that he wants nothing to do with you. If he won't admit it to you, then chances are that he probably doesn't really HATE you, just that he prefers your friend and not you, and he thinks that he needs to make sure she knows that.

The bottom line is that even if he doesn't hate you, he clearly doesn't care much about you either. Sorry, but I don't think there's anything you can do about it. Move on.

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