I am completely crushing on this guy who i met at a party. The party was at one of my best friends house. it was small with about 5 girls and 2 guys. The guys were being really flirty and sweet to me. they kept saying things like i was the most decent, hot, kind, pretty, attractive, ect... girl there. I started crushing on one of the guys. my friend says she can tell he really likes me and shes known him forever. the problem... she's heart broken by it. she's been crushing on him forever. i really like him, but i love her as a friend. should i put my feelings for him behind me or ask him out???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? rossg answered Friday January 5 2007, 10:43 pm: well if you know for sure that your friend is crushing on him then i would ask her first if you dont know for sure then you should just ask the guy out and if your friend makes a big deal about it thats her fault because she should have asked him first and if she says she does like him then just ask him out any way but i am not saying to not be friends with her if she makes a big stink but if she thinks you are a backstaber then let her because it is her fault
so all in all i say ask him out and still be friends with your friend
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p.s. dont tell your friend that you are going to ask him out because you dont want the worst thing to happen and that is that you wont have a boy friend or a friend so keep it on the down low until you get an answer from the guy [ rossg's advice column | Ask rossg A Question ]
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