I am 12, and I have a boyfriend who is 17. He tells me everyday that he loves me, and that he wants to show he loves me by having sex with me. Well, like i said, I am only 12, and i haven't gotten my period yet. So, i can have sex with him and not get pregnant right? Also, I do not know if I want to do this, but he threatens to break up with me if I don't.
What should i do?
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First of all , he is 17 that is a 5 year age difference, which at your age is alot.
Having sex at 12 is also a very young age to be having sex, I dont know the risks of getting pregnant but nothing is impossible.
If he threatens to break up with you because you wont have sex with him, that is totally wrong.
And he is usuing you for sex.
If thats all he cares about, he cant possible love you as much as he claims he does.
You have to make sure he respects your opionion and your decision, its not his decision.
But its hard to tell him that, so give him little clues and then finally tell him.
It will all make sense to him somehow.
If you get pressured into doing it, do it safely and use a condom, but please weigh out your options before you make this decision.
You have everything to loose, so think wisely.
I hope I helped!
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