me & my boyfriend are in a fight and i dont really know why.we were at a school event and my 2 friends locked me in a dark room with him.i told him i wanted to leave becuase i was afraid of the dark.then he asked me to sit on his lap but i told him no bcuz i was afraid they would lock me in there again.
so i went on the stage which in near that room and was sitting on my friend [who i would NEVER go out with's] lap.i didnt realize he saw and he didnt seem mad so it was fine.then we were in the hall and i was sitting on my friend [whose a girls] lap.he was sitting next to us.i whispiered something that had nothing to do with him in her ear.
he sed i was being mean to him and talking about him and making him look like a reatrd.which i wasnt.
then he told my friend that he tried to give me a hug and i didnt give him one which is totally untrue.
i miss him like crazy and i cant stop crying.i love him so much,but i feel like i cant talk to him bcuz if i say sumthing wrong he might break up with me and i cant lose him, i would die.thanks SO much.=/
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LiLReBeL6907 answered Thursday January 4 2007, 1:29 pm: Well I think he is mad because you sat on your guy friends lap. You wouldn't sit on his lap in that dark room so maybe he doesn't fully understand why you did that. And maybe he thinks you were talking bad about him and ignoring him since you were seeming to hang out more with your friends at that school event than him. Either way you need to sit him down and talk to him. And don't apologize. If I were you I would say something like this: "Hey (his name). I tihnk you are mad at me and I don't know why. I don't think I did anything wrong, but I won't understand if I did something that made you mad unless you actually talk to me about this. I love you so much and I just want to work things out. Please just talk to me, cuz I feel like I can't talk to you about this, since you are totally avoiding me." [ LiLReBeL6907's advice column | Ask LiLReBeL6907 A Question ]
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