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i need to know what to do!!!!
well im a 13 year old girl and i met this guy on myspace and he says hes 16 , and im pretty sure hes really is, and he thinks im 17 because of the age on myspace. i had 17. and well hes asked me to hang out at his house a couple of times but i had to make up excuses so that i wouldnt have to go. because my mom would have a heart attack if i asked her to take me to a hot 16 yearolds house haha.
i dont really want to tell him my real age because it would be embarrassing and he would be pretty pissed off.
it would just be really hard to tell him.... and im not sure on wat to do. should i keep going on?
i dont know if i can keep making excuses.
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You have to tell the guy you are 13. There is no way around this. And if he still keeps talking to you then, then it's your choice if you want to meet him or not-then if he stops talking to you because he finds out your age, then he was only after sex. And at his house? NO. It has to be at a public place like the mall or the movies or something and you cannot go alone. Have a friend or a group of friends back you up there.
But seriously? You really want to meet a guy after talking to him on MySpace? I wouldn't do it. First of all, you have no idea what you are getting into. He may be a pedophile for all you know, and I'm not just talking about the ones who are adults. There are teenagers who have committed sexual crimes against kids your age and younger. And second of all, honey, your YOUNG. You don't need to be talking to 17 year-olds and contemplating about dating them. He's gonna pressure you into things that you are not ready for, whether you believe it or not. And he may seem all sweet and stuff but most likely, he is not like that-and it's not an uncommon thing for older teen guys to play on "the innocent young girl"-I've seen it happen all the time.
I hoped I helped.
xO Chelsea Ox
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