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Question Posted Saturday December 30 2006, 2:30 pm

I've been dating this guy for 2 months now we're not in an exclusive relationship at least that I know of. He's in his first year of college and i'm in my senior year in high school. The big question that I have is, is it possible for a guy who's still in the closet to have an exclusive relationship with me? I've been really thinking about this and all the things that he does lead up the answer no. He's always doing stuff with his family because well he can't tell them that he's going to hang out with his date and he can't tell them that he's going to hang out with his friend since they don't know who I am. It's really frustrating and I really don't know whether or not I should still date him.

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karenR answered Saturday December 30 2006, 4:35 pm:
I don't know why he would have a problem being exclusive. Guys are exclusive all the time.

Why is it a college age guy can't tell his parents he is hanging out with a friend? That's just crazy.

They aren't mind readers, he doesn't HAVE to tell them it is a date. They probably also aren't stupid, they may suspect something is up. If they mention anything it could be he needs to let them know. It would probably make his life easier if he didn't feel he had to sneak around.

I mean even if he feels they wouldn't approve of his lifestyle hiding it is stressful. People need less stress if they want to be happy. You too.

So if he won't let his parents meet you, and know you are his friend at least it will be very hard for you to continue as you are.

I wish you luck. :)

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