Question Posted Saturday December 30 2006, 12:34 am
I have been going out with this wounderful guy for about 1 month(T). I have known him 3yrs and I already know I love him. I know it's kind of hard to belive but I think I love another guy, I have known him 8yrs(J). I have loved (J) longer than (T) but, (J) and I have never gone out. I know (J) likes me and has for a long time. We spend alot of time together during school (we see each other between periods and we eat lunch together) but not outside of school unless it is school related. Now I have been having dreams about (J) where I'm dating him and there is no (T). I don't know if that is a sign or what it is. Should I break up with (T) and go out with (J) or talk to (T) about it and see what he thinks?
MummuM answered Saturday January 6 2007, 1:58 pm: I think you should do what your heart is telling you to do. Obviously this is a very confusing thing for you and I can't really tell you who to go out with. This is your feelings and your thoughts. I think you should just try to figure out your feelings for both boys. See which one you have more feelings for than take it from there. Follow what your heart is saying, but be sure to take your brain with you; it'll lead you to the right decision. [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
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