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I Know He Sees It
I'm so confused. I have a guy friend whom I have known for like 3-4 months. We talk on AIM every single day. We talk at school. Everything was going great until I asked him out. I really really like him and I care about him a lot. He says that he's not interested in a gf and he says that he makes relationships hell. I'm willing to try and make it work. In science, two girls sit next to him [seating chart]. He talks to them and they always laugh at his jokes. Don't get me wrong, I laugh at his jokes too. But whenever he talks to me he's like really shy or something. It's weird. He like posted 'merry christmas' comments with some other funny things on the two girls myspaces, but he didn't post anything on mine. Why can't he just admit his feelings for me? His friend, Halee, says that he always brings up our conversations on aim when he talks to her. She thinks that he really likes me, but he says that he doesn't think of me that way.
I gave him a shirt as an xmas present the day that we got out for winter break. You could tell that he really appreciated the shirt, even Halee said so. He said that he's gonna wear it the day that we come back from winter break. He sent me this on myspace:
" Hey I really have to say 'Thank you'! You have been so damn nice to me and have been a positive inlfusence on me. I really hope to be as good as a person as you some day but I dout that will happen. Thanks most of all. If I could ever repay you I would but I dont think I will ever be able to do. Thanks you alot. The reason I didnt really talk to you to much today was because I felt bad about you carring about me so much and I actually got nervous (But that happens alot anyway when I do anything). I didnt have words to tell you how much I apprisciated everything you've done for me. "
Does he like me? And is he too shy to admit it?
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Okay, my dear, you can't simply force or assume that someone likes you in a gf way just on your observations. Everyone is different and there is not one way to reveal what he feels for someone unless he says so himself.
He may like the girls in science--in a gf way--but he wants to keep you as a good friend. You may have just stepped into the friend zone. I say just keep a good friendship with him and don't go on something your friend said.
He likes you in a friend way and accept that and move on.
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