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I'm with stupid.
Alright so, I had been going out with my boyfriend for over 2 months. I've been kind of jealous of his ex, because they were like best friends and he told her everything,they would be up late talking, i just know it. and I felt like he still loved her, and believed him when he said he didn't. I never really liked her, she has been cruel to me, and rude, and an abusive friend.
But still, he told her everything...and she still loved him even after breaking up with him.
So I tell him. that I feel like he doesn't talk to me, and my best friend was kind of interfering and talking to him about it too, so then he broke up with me. then I told my other friend, and she called him and told him what a mistake he made, so he apologized to me and asked me to take him back. I rly like him, so I did.
Then I asked him if he rly meant it when he was sorry, because I talked to his ex, the girl I rly don't like and she showed me that he had told her that he was depressed that me and him were together, not apart, and that he only loved me so my friends would stop yelling at him. He of course then assured me he loved me, and that he was sorry, and he rly sounded like he meant it. So I believed him, but my friends, both girls and boys, were telling me to dump him rly fast because they thought everything he said was bullshit. and then of course and hour after he told me he rly loved me he told me he lied. so my friends were right and then goes out with his ex again. while she and him are going out, his best friend, who is a good friend of mine too, tells me he still wants to go out. then his ex breaks up with him again and tells him and me that she is gay, but I don't rly believe that, and then suddenly his best friend is again telling me that he wants to know what he can do to get me back.
eventually he gets around to talking to me, so we're back together again, but my best friends, who had been right about him before, are telling me i made a mistake by taking him back. Nothing has rly changed that much in the way he acts, and I dunno if I trust him. I want to so bad. I love that kid.
Does he RLY love me back? I mean I could ask him, but how would I know I'm getting the truth?
I rly don't think he is a liar, he always seemed like a rly good boy.
He acts like he loves me.
If he is lying now, I don't think it was like that for the whole 2 and 1/2 months. He rly seemed so in love with me.
What happened?
What should I say to him?
Should I stay with him?
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i know this is going to be short but it seems rather easy to me. if he act like you want him to, keep him. if he starts to ignore you and talk to his ex, dump him. it doesn't matter what your friends say, they may be wrong you can't tell. But you do need to remember that he lied to you before so he may do so again. i wouldn't give your whole heart to someone capable of lying like that.
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This is a TOUGH question to answer. Because, I don't know this boy personally, or anything. But on how you desrbied him, I don't think he has his feelings sorted out. I don't really think hes sure who he likes. How long have you been going out with him now again? If its been like a month, & that chick or anybody else hasn't come up, he probably likes you & only you. But, I think your friends know more about this then I do, obviouslyyy, & if they still think you should ditch him, I'd probably listen to them, other people can usually see things clearer then you can. Even though, you don't want to see it how they see it. What I did, when I had a similar problem to this, I put myself in my friends shoes, & looked at it from their view, I wrote down all the things that I agreed with them on, but then all things I myself agreed on. Which ever had more reasons, I chose that one, it ended up being for me to break up with him, hardest thing I ever did. But, it felt better once it was over.
Ask your friends about it, ask them if they think hes changed, & stuff. If they say, hes better now, then its all good, if they say, they still don't trust him, well then.. you have some decisions to make.
I hope everything works out for the best. (: kbye.
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