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ok i'll be straight to the point, i want a boyfriend. i don't care if its just a lust boyfriend who i date for a month..i just want a guy to like call at night and to kiss,etc... =/ i hope that doesn't sound too weird. yeah except i go to a small private school where all the guys are just friend with the girls and never really ask them out unless the girls are reallyyy popular,which i'm not really.and this might sound really snobby but my friends say i'm really pretty and i guess i'm alright but guys don't seem to like me at all. i don't know..guys at the movies and stuff hit on me but guys at school are like blahhh. ugh,i dont know what to do. where's a good place to meet guys outside of school? and no,movies and malls don't work. and what is up with the guys at my school anyway!?
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well if you are saying guys hit on you at the movies, then why dont the movies work? you can always try asking one of the guys in your school out, they might just be too shy. an arcade is a good place to find guys.
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well, the main thing to do is put yourself out there and be flirty. guys like it when girls are touchy, but not slutty. if your friends with the boys in your school, then its better to stay that way. a good place to meet some guys is through your guy friends and parties. so just try to put yourself out there :)
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Hey,
I've read your problem, and i understand what you are trying to say, and no you are not weird when you say that cause its normal that any girl would want to have a boyfreind to be there for her , and hang out with her and call and check up on her and so on.
First of all, i would like to clarify a point for you. About those guys in your school,maybe they just simply take you as their sister and or just a normal freind. Sometimes, their are girls that are usually considered this way , not in the kind of girlfreind type, its something good, it really is. But the thing is, that its just the way they feel about you, you can't change that. And actually boys usually get attracted to those popular girls cause they have good looks or are good kissers or are just so free loose type girls. But you know what, not everything should be about looks, cause when a guy dates you, he should like you for your personality , not for the way you look. Thats just lame, and you shouldn't think that way. Cause i am sure that you have such a great personality and any guy would want to date you, but maybe this guy simply is not from the guys with you in school.
You wanna meet a guy, then participate in a club , or in a certain activity, or take up a sport and maybe you would meet someone with you in practise, or take a course in learning any language you want, and maybe you would meet someone there. YOu see, you could make use of this, and at the same time, meet someone nice who could ask you out. Or maybe look for a part time job somewhere.
On the other hand, maybe you could simply try to get close to a cool guy with you in school, and try to drag him to asking you out, just be funny and nice and you can get him if you want. But only if its someone whose nice and respectful and you have feelings for him.
Try it out and think of what i said ,and if there is anymore advice you want, then please be free to contact me, or email me. Goodluck and have a nice day.
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