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please help
ok, so i'm 15/f freshman, i have a huge crush on a girl who's a junior. it's not just a crush, she's seriously ALL i think about, i'm in love with her. She's been going out with a senior for a few weeks, and honestly, the girl she's going out with (we're all gay if you haven't figured that out ;) , is not very pretty and honestly kind of dull. I have a few questions
1. do you think i have a chance with this girl? we're not really friends but i've known her for a while and we talk and joke around once in a while, but never actually hang out. sometimes i really get the feeling she likes me, do u think i'm just being dillusional?
2. what should I do? should I try to ignore it? should I just flirt a little? and if so, how? i need tips! or should I just tell her? and if so, HOW?! I don't want to come across as imature and naive, cuz i'm a year and a half younger than her
thank you sooo much i raelly need all the help I can get!
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Hey whats up,
Listen, i have read your problem and i have a suggestion. Since she's already going out with some other girl, it doesn't really matter if this girl is nice or not. This is not the point, the important thing is that she's going out with someone else.And since your not really sure of her feelings towards you. Then what i think you should do is to try and get close to her as freinds. Hang out with her ,call her, see what she likes and do it for her, be really nice and freindly. And then after you do that for a while, you will have known her much better, and she will also get to know you better and then she can judge whether she has feelings for you or not, and you will see if she does, cause she's gonna start getting closer to you and making her feelings obvious.
I am suggesting this cause there is noway that i can tell right now whether she's in to you or not, cause i don't think she even knows you really well. Just act as freinds first, and then if you see that she's responding to you and showing interaction and stuff, then start flirting and twisting things around, and again if she is in to you, then she'll come around herself.
Think of what i suggested and if you agree, then work on it, and if there is any other advice or help you would need, just feel free to contact me or email me. Goodluck
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