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just friends?
ah, okay well this guy *joe has liked me since freshmen year [im currently a junior], but didnt tell me till a month ago how he felt. well its been making it hard, b/c we'v been best friends since middle school. i think i have feeling for him, but im hesitating because i dont want to wreck our friendship because it means a lot to me. but yet i dont know what to do with these feelings. so if i could have your point of view on what you feel is right? i know im capable of making my own decisions and all, but it is nice to hear others input on the situation. =]
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I would go with him. But I'll take it slow. I'll slowly progress with him from friendship till a relationship stage.
A guy and a girl will get together first as aquaintences, then good friends, then best friends and probably to the stage where both of them like each other or could be a one sided crush.
At this point, when nothing is done bout it, both of them will most probably move on and establish a platonic relationship and it'll be hard/wierd to go into a relationship anymore. So if you really like him, you should go with him. Cos if you two just keep your feelings to each of yourselves, then the friendship might turn into a confused and probably an awkward one since you two don't even know if you're just friends or in a relationship. Blearrgh...it's hard to explain but I hope you get what I mean. I just feel that it might confuse everything. So yea, I'd go with him if I have feelings for him.
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