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question i need help asapp ! pleasee
im 14/f.. and im soo confused because i really like this kid alot, and i dont know how he feels about me so im not sure how to act towards him and everying, but like we`ve kissed before and everything but im really not sure what todo. so i have like 6 quck little questions if you dont mind answering..
1. would you perfer a girl/male to make the 1st move & just like grab your head & kiss you OR you make the 1st move
2. how do you show your feelings towards a female/male [ like show them you like them ]
3. how do you become not shy [ like be open & show your feelings towards someone ]
4. what if you like someone, but you dont know them that well to hold a conversation, what do you talk about ?
5. how do you show your feelings towards someone that you arent sure likes you back ?
6. how do you know the person had enough with flirting. like when to stop ? and like how long would it take for the person to relize you like them.
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I will do my best to answer this. I should warn you ahead of time that this area is not one of my strong sides, not by a long shot. However, since you asked, here goes:
1. I would prefer the other person to make the first move. I think that most people, even the not so shy ones, would prefer to be relieved of the burden of acting first.
2. Oh boy. I am really not good at getting past that awkward stage between being friends and something more. All I can say is talk to him, chit chat about what he is interested in, ask him to talk about himself, that sort of thing. Generally I think its much easier for the girl (of course I am speaking from a guy's perspective).
3. If anyone gives you an answer to this one, make sure you tell me as well.
4. This is a really tough one as well. Some people are experts at talking about nothing (and thats what you have to do at the beginning since you dont know the person well enough to have a really meaningful conversation). Its a skill that can be learned, though I never have. The best I have done to break the ice and get to know someone is to use humour. That however does not always get you where you want to be.
5. Show interest in them. Talk to them, joke with them, try to involve yourself in what they are doing (without being pushy). Be nice and friendly.
6. How long depends on the person. In my case I have missed some really big ones in my time. I mean, really big. If your guy is unlucky enough to be as bad at picking up on signs as me, then the answer is "a hell of a long time". Luckily some guys are very sharp and he may ask you out very quickly. I know enough to say that there is no norm here. You just have to play it by feel.
Well I know this wasnt a great deal of help (its why i tend to stick to fitness/nutrition questions).
Good luck.
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