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Fun in a Hot Tub?
15/f
K, well I've liked this guy named Jeremy for about a year and a half now. We are really good friends, but nothing happened between us at all for about a year because he had a girlfriend. I noticed a change right away in our relationship once he broke up with his girlfriend. He flirted with me a lot more, and just gave me more attention.
Anyways, at the beginning of the year, I told him I liked him and he told me he liked me back and thought I was cute. Well, that same weekend he went and made out with 2 girls. Ever since then, he's been known as this big partier. I have gone to a couple of parties with him, and I know that he just wasn't in the mindset for a serious relationship.
Then, as we got even closer in the last few weeks, he told me that he was ready for a gf and that he wanted to hook up with me in my hot tub this weekend. Now, I've always imagined making out with him so of course I was all ready to say yes.
But now, I wonder ... he might just be leading me on again, and telling me he wants a relationship so that I am more willing to fool around with him. I don't want to just be his make out buddy. So -- what do I do? Do I risk being used and just have fun this weekend, or do I tell him that's not such a good idea?
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tell him everything you just told us. Tell him that you think he's just leading you on so he can do more with you. If you don't want to be just his make-out buddy, tell him that. If you want to take the risk of possibly being hurt, then make out with him and fool around this weeked. But if you want to have fun and not have your heart broken, talk to him.
communication is key.
hope i helped
xo
your damn lucky you have a hot tub...
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Guys that age can be ambiguous about how they approach relationships. They are either really loyal and serious or they are prone to cheat and be players. I know, I've been there! Eh, actually we're like that at any age, but no matter. Given what I know of his history with women from what you've said, the fact that he told you he's into you and then hooks up with two other girls and THEN comes back to you doesn't speak very highly of his intentions. It's your call on how you want to deal with this, but be very careful and don't expect much. Take care of yourself first.
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ask him to eat over w/ your parents. no for real! thats what i told my gf who i didnt know about. ends up she just was some sex addict who though i had a big "ehhhm" u know
hope it helped
nathan
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