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i think it is time for me to do this


Question Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 10:13 pm

i dont know what to do iam a 15 year old girl and i have never met my mom she walked out on my and my dad and i have a little borhter that i havnt seen since the 5th grade he is younger than me and i miss them terriably .. they live in a town outside were i live, the guy that likes me found them for me and foudn there adress and telephone number .. what should i do .. if i phone them or write them a leter.. what should i write.. this is so unbelivebly personal so .. think about it hard befor you answer please.. thank you <3

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dimond_holmes answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 7:07 pm:
I think you should just go to her house tell her who you are and that you love her and miss her give her a hug and ask her to sit down with you for a while and talk get to know each other again
and start communicating more and see if you can come over on weekends and stuff.

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TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 1:18 am:
I am so sorry. This must be an awful time for you.


I would recommend just going to the address and showing up at the door. Your mother should be happy to receive you- whatever reason she left, I'm sure it wasn't your fault...you were only a mere 5th grader, right?

There's no need for a phone call or a letter. You shouldn't have to go and schedule a time to meet or anything- family shouldn't be formal. There is never a right or wrong time to see your loved ones. Just go there directly.



I'm not aware of the circumstances, but do you know specifically why they walked out? If you don't, just go to their house and have a talk with your mom and find out why she left you, and tell her how much you love her and miss her and want her to come back. Promise to visit every week or so, and stick to it.


I hope everything goes well for you. Best of luck to you and your family.

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etnies40210 answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 11:07 pm:
tell her you miss her and ask if u can meet at chiilys or the mall and go shopping or some shit like that. tell her u miss her like 3 or 4 times to make her feel sorry (lol) but 4 real you are the 2nd person who has found their mom tonight, i wish i was the third...
hope it helped
nathan
(please review my post to the other person)

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