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to tell or not to tell


Question Posted Monday December 11 2006, 6:02 pm

ok so basically ive gotten advice from her before thanking if i was bi or not. Well most people said it was probably a phaze.. Well its not i am i know for a fact. i havent told any one yet not even my best friend.. Well i want to tell her but im afraid. okay so basically How do i tell her? she supports gays and all so i know she will support me but im just worried how she will act around me if i do.. Should i tell her cause im wanting to really bad. and if i do tell her how should i tell her? what to say and all. ill rate for answers
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lesbian answered Sunday March 25 2007, 1:37 am:
I told my gay friends first, then my closer friends. My best friend was the hardest person in the world to tell. She actually was the last person i told (not including my parents)


Best friends can tell, usually. She told me "yeah, i'm not surprised for some reason."

She probobly already knows, and if she doesnt, well, i'm sure she wont take it THAT hard.

Thinking about coming out is the worst part. Once you are out to people, you dont really think about it.

I'm still not out to most classmates, co-workers, ect, and well actually friday a gay guy in my chemistry class totally *accidently* outed me to someone in class and i was pissed. ANyways, yeahto get back on topic, she'll understand.

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luna45 answered Monday December 11 2006, 8:58 pm:
well most of my friends are bi, and its really no big deal. just wait until your having a real conversation and bring it up. say that your bisexual but don't want it to be awkward at all, your still the same person and your relationship is not going to change. talk about it until you feel that she understands, and won't see you any differently, even if you have to ask her amillion questions or vis versa. She should know and you deserve to be able to tell her.

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