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Social Services, family gettin destroyed
i had a normal family, untill a few years ago when my sister started to completly disregard my parents, and just absorbed herself into her friends. her friends have had a bad influence on her. bother of them are dadless and they are causing my sister to disregard anything my dad says. the other day it got so out of hand my dad hit my sister. it was 100% justified i think. she went beserk and called social services, told every official she could and blew it out of proportion. now she is making up stories of other abuse's that didnt occur, including sexual abuse which never happen! her friends are drving her to do this, and she now (starting the other day)at my aunts. i dont wanna lose my family but my sister already took this to the next level
now we need to go to cout, and no one believes our side of the story, they just buy all the garbage shit my sister spews at them!
what can i do to get people to see the truth, my sister is lying and she is just trying to leave asap, (no one will believe this story at least not the truth...probally, but still any advice?)
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I'm sorry to hear that such bad things regarding your home life. I'm also sorry to hear that your sister is giving into the peer pressure of others. You didn't mention your sisters age in here but I'm going to guess she's under the age of 18 since it sounds like she has some maturing to do. Most kids/teens under the age of 17/18 are wreckless and rebellious and don't normally care about the pain they cause among others. I just want you to know that this won't last forever. She will most likely grow out of it eventually so don't "hate" her during this situation. If anything, try to console her and help her in anyway possible. Maybe in the end she will end up listening to you and tell the truth. As for social services and court. Most cases like this will require evidence and considering they have one daughter saying it's completely false and one saying it's true they will have to decide on who to believe. Chances are they're going to believe you if you present them with evidence that her attitude has rapidly decreased since hanging out with the two friends that are bad influences. Once the people of the court see the evidence of her personality changing due to others they will possibly see that there is a chance of her lying. I know it may seem impossible to believe but in the end everything will work out. My advice to you is just take it all in calmly, handle the situation as best as you can and understand that things will eventually get better. Not only that, but this experience can only make you a stronger person. I hope this helped.
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