so i like this guy and he never noticed me for the longest time until one weekend and we hit it off with the flirting and such. the only thing was he liked this other girl at the time so we would talk about her and i would give him advice on what to do.(im sorry im a caring person!!) but it turns out she turned him down and doesnt like him. then he liked this other girl but then decided not to ask her out because "shes too stupid" and he cant have a conversation with her. i had conversations with him all the time! but suddenly it dimmmed down. he can be kind of an ashole though but then he redeems himself. he will say funny comments (sometimes about me) and it will hurt my feelings so i confront him about it and we laugh about it but i dont know what to do anymore. i can tell when he likes a girl and right now it doesnt seem he likes me. tell me things to say or like conversation starters or ways to flirt i miss that weekend! i need to know ways to reel him in hahaha.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lavender_chika16 answered Sunday December 10 2006, 1:22 pm: One of things guys hate most are girls who try too hard to get noticed by them. It makes the girls come off as weird or attention-seeking, so try to put your first question out of mind. The best you can do is tell this boy how you feel in a somewhat comical way, and hope that he likes you as well. It is natural to be upset about it, if he doesn't like you, but let it affect your entire life. If you have a hard time telling this boy about your feelings, write him a note or send him an Email, explaining your feelings. The one of the best ways to do it would be over the phone. Try have a friend present at the time, if you choose to tell him over the phones, so they can give you some moral support in the end, despite the answer. [ lavender_chika16's advice column | Ask lavender_chika16 A Question ]
orangexjuice answered Sunday December 10 2006, 10:25 am: Well first,you should find out what kinds of things he's interested in(video games,sports,etc.),and talk to him about them.Try to see if you guys have anything in common.If you do,the conversation will just flow and keep going.Good Luck!^_^ [ orangexjuice's advice column | Ask orangexjuice A Question ]
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