Question Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 10:24 pm
ok, so im dating a sophmore and im a freshman. well ive only been dating the sophmore for like 2 days adn ive realized that i like one of my frineds more, but she has a boyfriend. i have seen a picture of him and just from looking at the picture he looks like hes the type of guy who just dated girls so he can get sex from them. i like her alot and i dont know wut to do. i think she likes me because her b/f goes to a different school and didnt get his date form for the dance turned in on time and she asked if i was going and she sorta hinted that she wanted me to ask her because her "date" turned the date form in too late. she sits next to me in spanish and we talk in class a little bit, but i talk to her on aim and on the phone alot. or did untill about 2 weeks ago. what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lavender_chika16 answered Sunday December 10 2006, 1:09 pm: This situation has to be resolved very carefully because so many other people are involved. If you really like your friend that much, break up with your current girlfriend first. When you do this, explain to her why you're breaking up with her, but don't tell her the name of the girl you like or else there might a catfight later on in the future. After you break up with your current girlfriend, talk to your friend, and tell her how you feel. If she likes, too, give her time to break up with her current boyfriend. However, there is also a good chance that she might only like as a friend. Some girls overly-friendly, and come off as being flirty when they really aren't. Maybe she only wants you to go to the dance with her as a friend. If this is the case, try to accept and do not tell that her boyfriend is only dating her, so he can sleep with her. That is a self-made assumption that must be put out of mind or else it will drive you insane. It may even cause you to do something that you will make ruin both your friendship and your chances with the girl you like. However, what's most important is that you break up with your current girlfriend. You're only hurting both of you by dating her when you have no true feelings for. [ lavender_chika16's advice column | Ask lavender_chika16 A Question ]
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