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in school-out of school drama
okay well ive been going through a lot. in school, and out. i dont know how to get the stuff in school to stop because i just really dont need it, especially because of what has happened outside of school. well, in school me and my friends dont really talk anymore and i dont know how to getr them to just stop talkin trash and leave me alone because outside of school one of my aunts just died and my grandfather isnt doing well either, and my grandmother isnt either. i really need help on how to end this in school drama. im just sick of it.
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I know exactly what you are talking about....my family wasnt doing so well, and at the same time there was drama in school. It depends on if you are a female or male at what age. (By your message I think that you may be a teenage female.) But anywanys, I would have to agree and say that since these "friends" are talking trash about you, they really arent your real friends because real friends wouldnt do that. If you try to make some more friends, they would most likely not judge you if they really are your friends. You could also be positive around people, people would know that there is a change, and more people would want to be around you. I am not trying to be rude, but there will ALWAYS be drama, because everyone can get jealous sometimes. I hope I helped!
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Find new friends. They aren't your friends. Just ignore them completely because if you react to their actions, they'll just have mroe fun with talking trash about you. If you ignore them, they'll look like the complete morons and they'll get tired after a while. If they don't stop anytime soon, go to the counslor and you don't do anything bad to them or anything that would backfire on you. They'll surely get in trouble. As for your relatives, be optimistic and pray or hope if you're an athiest ...well anywhos hope that they'll get better because pessimistic thoughts will just result in bad results. So think positive. I know, it sounds corny.
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you should try talking to your friends in a mature way. call them or talk to them in person..try something like "i dont want to be immature about this whole situation could we try and be friends again" something along those lines just tell them the real problem. or whatever
try not to swear or raise your voice, that may help lol
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