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he DID email me back!
ok so for about 1 month ive been so heartbroken, crying like there's no tomorrow, because i emailed my crush (just a normal email, not revealing anything) and he didnt answer.. and it felt like i was living for him, and he didnt even notice me, but TURNS out, he did email me, but it landed in the "trash" and just noticed it now..(Gosh im lucky, two more days and it would have been deleted!) but here's the thing.. in this email, he wrote "ive been thinking about you alot" and at first when i read that, i screamed, started jumping up and down.. so happy, BUT NOW that it's sunk in.. i kinda.. i dont know. it feels like my feelings were SOO HOTT and now they've cooled down. does this mean i dont like him anymore? was i just in it for the chase? because seriously - i could have sworn i was IN LOVE with the guy.
And my second question would be, WHAT NOW? he sent that A MONTH AGO.. i mean it would be weird to answer NOW-- he's def. the typ of guy who would overanalyze that! so maybe i should just "let go" ? cause the thing is.. im not even allowed to date. so what's the point in answering?
Third question - let's say id answer (not saying that i am!) - what would i say??
please help! thanks!
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ok well to the answering him back..which i suggest you do so that he doesnt think liek you lost interest. be like hey im sorry it took so long to respond your email got sent to the trash and i just found it. and hten be like syaing what you would have said if you got it wen you were supposed ot. like be like aww really you have? i would say deffiantely email him back.
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well to the 2nd question: e mail him bak and tell him his e mail got sent to the wrong folder on ur e mail and u've been thinking about him since u SENT the email! im sure he'll understand.
hope i helped :)
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There's a good explantion to why you aren't feeling as strongly for him anymore. It's because in the time when you thought that he didn't care about you, you forced yourself to begin getting over him. All the same feelings are still there, they have just been surpressed. They can all come back again if you give it a chance. :)
My advice on what you should do, tell him EVERYTHING. Let him know how upset you were when you didn't e-mail you back. Tell him about the feelings you had for him. Then say how you found the e-mail and you are so sorry because you are afraid that he had been as sad as you since you didn't answer him back. This can all be worked out if you put some work into it.
I think that it's worth the chance. You liked this guy so much before. If you end up really having completely gotten over him, at least you tried. Good luck!
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you should answer him, and explain what happened. now, in almost all cases, i advise agaisnt getting back together with an ex. but, you seem to have some issues between the two of you that you should resolve. i dont know the context of the email you sent him, so i cant help you much further.
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