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HELP ME!
hey, well I have a boyfriend, and i love him ALOT. you couldnt amagine. I feel different about this boy, i know what you are going to say.. its not love.. ur only 15. I really do love him, i would do anything for this kid really. Lately we have been getting in a lot of fightss. [ we have been toghether for almost two months] and we always get through them.. lol. but he flirts with girls alot and i used to flirt with his best friend but i dont anymore.. i didnt mean to.. he still does and i can feel like i cant trust him that much anymore.. i dont know i can .. but i get worried.. i get paranoied sometimes but hey.. its not my fault should we break up?? please help
xoxo muah*
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First you should talk to him and about the sitch. Then if he doesnt give a good excuse then maybe it would be time to break up but go with your heart not what I or someone else tells you what yo do. Hope this helps
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ask yourself this question....does he seem that he does it on purpose, or does he seem unconcious about it...me and my ex-boyfriend were like that too..only i was the one that was always flirting, and he'd get mad, i wouldn't do it intentionally, it would just happen...but when he told me about it and he told me that it would help if i stopped i tried really hard to stop and then....well it doesn't really matter..LOL..just tell him about and see if he's doing intentionally or unconsiously..bye...
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That's good you realize it's not your fault. Sometimes with girlfriends they think that because their boyfriends flirting with other girls, that there's something wrong with them ; they have some tpye of fault, and it's driving their boyfriend away, which isn't the case at all.
I would have a serious talk with your boyfriend and let him know what you're feeling. Just be like,"I love you, and you know I love you, but lately, I've been having trust issues with you. Now I'm not looking for a fight, cause I really hate it whenever we fight, but I really think we just need to talk about this. I notice you flirt with girls alot, and I know, I used to do it too, but I really care about you and I've stopped, and it just bugs me whenever you do it. Cause you're an amazing guy and I'm just so worried, you know? You just need to stop with the flirting."
If he gets into an argument about it, which he shouldn't, that makes him kind of a jerk. All you're asking is for him to stop flirting with other girls WHILE he's dating you. But he honestly might now realize it ; he may be a natural flirt. Now I know this isn't an excuse and everything, but it makes it slightly less bad cause he may just be flirting and not realize.
But he sounds like a nice boyfriend so I'm sure he'll understand your concerns and re-assure you that he loves you, and he'll try his best to stop flirting with all the other girls, and I'm sure everything'll turn out just fine. You guys just need to be able to communicate with eachother more and let eachother know what you're thinking & feeling. This is a vital key within every relationship cause if you don't sit there and let them know something's bothering you or what you're thinking and feeling, the relationship can turn mighty ugly.
I hope I helped.
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