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?christmas presents?
sorry, i dont really know what topic to put this under.....
But,Okay, well me and my really really close friends are in a huge fight and i dont really talk to her any more at all, and well, i havent for about a month or so. Well, i guess my question is, i bought her and her family christmas presents and im really close with her family because we were friends for soo long and i just want to know if i should still give them the presents, because well, i dont have a problem with her or her family at all. welll, should i give them to them? or should i at least give her family their presents??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you're interested in repairing your friendship with her, this could be the perfect opportunity. You could take the gift to her and her family and apologise, even if you don't think you did anything wrong. Sometimes it's not about who's right.
It's possible she has gifts for you, too, and she just doesn't know what to do. So if you're brave, I would give them, in person. Or, if you can't do that, leave them or mail them and attach a note, maybe?
One other thing--if you do apologise, make sure it's about what you did, not her. In other words, don't say "I'm sorry you were upset" or "I'm sorry you fought with me." Try "I'm sorry that I hurt you" or "I'm sorry that we got into a fight." Accept responsibility so she knows you miss her.
If you DON'T miss her or want her friendship back, well, I wouldn't give the gifts, but ultimately, it's whatever makes you more comfortable, and what you can live with.
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