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he hugs me
there is this guy that when ever he sees me, he hugs me in the hall. hes one year older and doesn't even know my name. i don't like him but his cousin is in my class. the kid that is in my class told his cousin to act like he likes me to see if i am racists. i am not and he still does it. i want him to stop because people think that we are going out. if i talk to them then they will think that i am racists since they are hispanic. help plz. ty
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Well, you should definitely tell this guy you are uncomfortable with him hugging you. You shouldn't have to put up with anyone doing that because you are afraid they will think you are racist.
Besides, if they think you are a racist, but you know better, and see now I know better too. If this guy thinks you are racist because you ask him to stop hugging you because it makes you uncomfortable, then he is a jerk who's opinion doesn't matter anyway. I know it's hard for you to see that now because you are in school and have to deal with it everyday.
Do be honest with the guy. Honesty is always the best policy. If he throws up the race thing in your face, tell him, 'Hey man, no offence, but I don't even know you and it's because of that I don't want you to hug me. Your skin tone doesn't have anything to do with it.'
Inform him that the best way to find out if someone is racist is to talk to them and try to get to know them, not invade their personal space. Not all people are touchy-feely, and that has nothing to do with skin tone either.
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Just tell them flat out, your not a racist y'all is kool and all as a friend but can you please stop hugging me and shit its freaking me out. Tell them that and most likely they will understand.
Short N Punky
Ps. honesty is the best way
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