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Question Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 6:15 am

I couldn't stand the people back in highschool. Highschool is suppose to be where people grow up and get an education. People to me didn't do that. They just bothered me about stuff. And they cussed at me judged me, bullied me. Even when I go to the mall I can't get anything for my money I mean when I do go to the mall I Know what I want to get and I get it but it doesn't look good to me. Then people at school annoyed me about it. Why the hell should they care. What makes me mad is that I think that other girls that was there at the mall or the store where like trying to get me to mess me up. THey're so annoying. They look at products the same way I do touch clothes they way I do. Whenever my eye lands on them they act like I'm trying to see what they bought so I can buy them for myself. They hide their bags it's always when I am looking. What are they trying to do? It insults me that they would do that. I can't stand it even the look in their eyes when they do it makes me feel hurt and mad. I can't go to any store without these happening. I am the only one in the planet that is being treated like this. It's getting too long now I kind of forgot the other things but I just want to get this feeling out. Thank you for advicenators that reads this I am thankful for the free advice and time anyone took to read this. I have lots of stuff happening and can't find affordable cheap or free counseling. But I think people are so wrong.

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Additional info, added Thursday December 7 2006, 6:19 am:
I am not in highschool anymore..

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4evaurs_21 answered Thursday December 7 2006, 10:20 am:
First of all, you are not the only person on the planet who has/is going through this. I didn't really go through this is in highschool, but I did in gradeschool. I was on a few sports teams i HS so I kind of was with the 'in-crowd' or however you want to say it. I was friends with Everyone. And I had a lot of older classmen as friends. But there were cliques. And that's going to be expected in highschool. There's always going to be that one person or even a group of people who are bullied around. I'm sorry you went through this. It sucks, I know. My advice for you, is if they are still doing this, don't let them see that it's bothering you. If they see that look in your eye or anything to that extent, they know that they got to you, so they'll keep doing it. Shake it off. Don't listen to them or watch them. Be yourself. Don't give them the time of day. People judge and usually they don't know you or what you have gone through. If you need to talk to anyone about anything AND everything, I'm here. Just write me a message and I will be happy to listen and write back.

Hope this helps!!

~4evaurs_21~

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