Question Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 10:58 pm
ok i have liked this guy for a few months now. everyone says these signs tell you if he likes you or not but im not too sure. Ok until very recently (like until Monday) everytime im with him he looks me in the eyes and we talk alot and some times he'll add in a mean joke and ill pretend to be mad and kick him/shove him and he'll do it back until one of us ends up in the snow. When im outside his class for Math to end he used to see me give me a little wave, a big smile then look at the teacher and if hes not looking stick out his toungue at me. He likes to bug me sometimes and until recently I could trust him alot. We are together alot and we even email eachother. Also when people bug me about my race (asain) he starts defending me and tells them to shut up. Okay but recently hes starting to like ignore me. on MSN and finnally asked me if I liked him I said no (im shy in that concept) and he was like "phew" and sometimes when I joke about liking him he'll pretend to barf. He's gotten mad at me alot in these past three days I was planning to ask him who he likes this week but now I think he hates me. What do I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Bluebell78 answered Sunday December 10 2006, 3:10 pm: it doesnt seem that he hates you but i guess he is offened when u said that you dont like him, he was expecting an yes. So go to him and ask him y he is ignoring you...and if u really like him tell him that you like him.This makes alot of sence to me.....He has been putting in alot of work with you....Yes you are worth it.....But in these days people are extreamly busy......These extra things he has been doing is because he likes you and is feeling it in a physical way also............He is starting to not see any light at the end of the tunnel so he is getting frustrated....He obviously seems like a nice guy so he has not made any advances.........If you like him and want him to be more then a friend you need to act soon!!!! Like now or in a day or two.........If he is putting this on you that means he has alot of respect for you and does not want to ruin his friendship with you, by taking that leap..........He is frustrated and needs to know where you two stand and can not play out the roles any longer. i would suggest that you dont IM him or E-mail him, til he does so to you. and maybe try talking to him. tell him how you feel. he prbably doesnt hate you though. he could also be scared to talk to his crush who doesnt like him back. i think now you have to work your way up. just tell him its just best if we are friends. then once everything starts to go back to normal then ask him. well i did the best i could with this answer and i hope i helped you out. im sry i got to your question late too. i have been so busy latley and its to long to explain. well good luck and hope everything works out between you. everything should be okay! [ Bluebell78's advice column | Ask Bluebell78 A Question ]
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