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Are they really my friends?
Well, I am 13 and a girl, and I have these 2 friends, and they are supposed to be my really good friends. But about a month ago we all got in a reallllly big fight. First (lets call these friends 1 and 2)1 got in a fight with 2, and they were fighting (like wanted to kill each other fighting!) and then I left on vacation, and when I came back, they got to be friends again, and said that I had changed and I argued alot, and was rude, but they were the only ones that thought that. I had always argued a lot, and everyone knows that, but they said that it was getting annoying, and if got to the point that they didnt even want to be my friend anymore. We all had a 3 way phone call conversation, and there were tears, and we all "supposably" were friends again. But we still werent as good as friends as we used to be. After a while, everything was back to the way it used to be, but 1 kept on saying things like "no offense but your hair isnt cute today" and that would just get me mad, and then 2 got another friend, and wanted to be with her than with me, and then 1 and 2 had a birthday party together, and 1 got in a fight with another girl, and just other people just didnt want to be around 2! And just everything is just sooo screwed up! I just hate all the drama! I wish it was just like the old days with no drama! Do you have any advice for me??
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This is the really bad thing about the three way best friend kind of thing.. it's easier to get into a fight. Unfourtunately, this is common, too. It sounds like they seem to group up on you if anything bad ever happens. This also might mix into the fact that they're looking at other friends, and may be comparing you. I'd say that you should try to not overreact with them if anything happens. Be a little more care free, and maybe they'll get the vibe. Just do NOT, I repeat (hah) do NOT, gang up on one person, or anything like that. Maybe try to have a sleepover at your house with both of them, and do group activites that will get you all involved and having an awesome time.
If this dosen't seem to work out, though, I'd say to try to stay away from them for a bit, and even though it sounds hard, it may be for the best, if they're causing that much drama for you.
If you need anything else, please feel free to write me!! xo_graziano_ox@hotmail.com
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