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wats a girl to do..?
i was wondering (since your a guy) what are some things you like your girl to do when your making out with her?? my guy has been to second base with me and fingered me too..but it seems all i do is run my fingers through his hair and kiss him while all this happens. so what are somethings you like to happen coming from your girl when you two are doing this??? thanks!
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Well, bear in mind that I'm 34 years old and married, so it's been a long time since I "made out". However, I might be able to give you a few suggestions.
First and foremost, make sure you're clear on just how far you're prepared to go. If you start trying new things, he might take that as an invitation to also try new things, and some of them may be things that you are not ready for. It's better in the long run if you can set the ground rules.
Try the following simple moves:
(1) Blow in his ear, and gently trace your tongue around it. The blowing should be gentle and breathy, not the way you'd blow out a candle. Suck on his earlobes a bit. Be aware that some guys don't like "ear play", so if he flinches away, just move on to something else.
(2) Rub his chest with both hands. Just because guys don't have breasts, it doesn't mean they don't like to be touched there. However, guys like a firmer hand; touching him to delicately will make him feel less manly. It should be more of a massage than just stroking or petting.
(3) Put his hands on your body where you want them. Guys love to be invited, and it also keeps you in control.
(4) Talk to him. Tell him when it feels good, when you feel turned on, and how he can touch you just right. Things like "you're making my blood boil" or "I'm feeling so hot!" will have the desired effect. But be careful not to promise what you can't deliver - saying "I want you!" may be interpreted as an invitation for sex.
(5) Most guys love breasts so much that when he's touching or kissing them, he feels like he's actually getting the better end of the deal. At times like these, all you need do is sit back and enjoy. Trust me, he's enjoying himself plenty. You can put your hands on the back of his head an pull him closer if you want to - he will not mind.
One important thing to know is how to put the brakes on, if it becomes necessary. If you feel that he or both of you are getting too worked up and that you might do something you're not really ready for in the heat of the moment, a good way to stop is to pull him into a firm kiss, pull back and look into his eyes, and say, "I'm getting too excited, we need to slow down." He will probably be disappointed, but that will be offset by how great he feels about having gotten YOU so turned on.
Hope that helps! Happy necking!
Finally, the most critical thing: Be honest! Don't pretend something feels good when it doesn't. He's paying attention to how you react to find out what turns you on, and you don't want to give him any false impressions, or he'll just keep doing it that way.
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