i have these 2 friends, one is a bff, and one is just a friend. and both of them hate eachother, my other bff are stuck right in the middle of "what is she saying behind my back" thing. and my friend is willing to say shes sorry, but my bff wont and shes acting immature about the whole thing.
how do i just get them to stop acting immautre and get on with life?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Alexandkendra answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 8:47 pm: Flat out tell them.
Make them feel awkward and dumb.
Say " Look guys, look at this and tell me you dont think this is stupid!"
Or you could not talk to them for a few days, until they get it all straigtned out.
Or even put them in a situation where they would almost want to be friends again.
Im not too familar with this kind of sitaution, but im pretty sure those things will work.
You could also say sorry to both of them, and then maybe they will realize that its their fault not yours, and hopefully they will realize what they are doing.
I hope everything works out!
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