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how to get over an ex bf
Dear anyone,
me and my ex bf met 8 months ago, we broke up 4 times in a course of 2 months. he was my first everything, first love, frist kiss, first bf, and i have neverliked a guy in my life as much as him, we talked every day atleast 2 hrs and it was amazing. at the end i broke up with him bc things wer vrey shaky, for a while i had regretted breaking up with him alot bc if we stayed together i wudve been much happier, and i knew he still liked me afterwards. for the past 6 months i have cried over him atleast once a week, thigns are liek a rollercoaster, sometimes we h.u and sometimes we dont talk at all, i knw he h.us with other girls , this fact used to hurt me but not anymore for i have gotten used to it, just like i have gotten used to the fact that he h.us with all my frends. i still keep my phone next to me all the time in case he calls, wen my phone rings i hope its him calling, i still have the one rose he gave me , the thoguth of him brings tears to my eyes, teh last time we h.u wich was very recent- it was differnet that all the other times- it didnt have tht feeling of love between us, my eyes wernet even closed, i knw he was jsut using me for ass so wen i got home all i did was cry, i realyl want to get over him because i knw he is over me, ppl tht knw i like him knw i shud get over him as well, i really have tried and its been 8 months that ive liked him, once in awhile i think bout getting back with him but i will never really do it, the worst part is he thinks i h.u with other guys wen in reality the only guy i ever h.u with is him, i am so stuck on him i cud never even imagine being with another guy, i hate sleeping at nite because all i do is think about him. i really lvoe him and he doesnt even realize it and wen ppl tell him he doesnt believe them, last nite i was hysterically crying for 3 hrs till 1 am, my hoel family woek up and my parents were sitting next to my bed very concerned, he called me and i did not anser wich made me cry more becasue its rare that he calls, and tht i dont anser, its just tht i was crying so much i cudnt anser the phoen, i woke up in the mornign nd my eyes wer puffy, teh hole day i was in a bitter mood and was sleeping in all my clases. i know this is pathetic. i really miss him and want him to care about me but thers nothing ican say to him to make him care.. i guess its the type of person he is.. his best friend also told me tht he never liked me and was just using me for ass, its hard for me toexcept this fact, i refused to cry today. i need to get over him PLEASE HELP! this weekend i am going to be with him and i need help before i drown in my own tears-
-LS
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if he is the cause of your unhappyness then when be around him. you dont need someone to put you down and make you sad all the time. you need a guy that will make you happy 24/7 not this. i doubt that you want to live the rest of your life like this ove one guy. you need to eb strong and get through it. what doesnt kill you should only make you stronger. you have to learn from your mistakes and be able to take risks. your frist love is the hardest to get over but you need to or you will just be miserable your whole life. try findind a new guy to take ur mind off of him. dont waste your time on him if he doesnt do the same for you. if he really did care about you he will come back to you. Dont cry over him because he isnt worth your tears and the guys that are wont make you cry..
♥ Steph
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