Lately I've really wanted to be in a relationship. 14/f, and I've never had a boyfriend. I personally think I'm ugly, but a lot of guys think I'm hott. I've been feeling really down and depressed about not having a boyfriend..ever. I'm not even prude, I have a lot of popular and guy friends. Yesterday, I was feeling so low, that I began to cry, and now I'm thinking about going on anti-depressants. I have a very low self-esteem, but the thing is everybody thinks that I have such a high self-esteem and that im very concieded, and vain, but I'm just the opposite of that. I hate my body and face and everything else about me. I just wish that I could get a boyfriend - I'm getting REALLY desperate. I mean, I'm in high school and I've never been in a relationship. I sort of just hate my social life or any bit of my life right now, and I don't know what to do.
brianna_shay answered Monday December 4 2006, 8:06 pm: If a lot of guys think your hot, then you could prabably easily get a boyfriend. If your not getting a boyfriend, its probably because your not flirting enough with them. lets put it this way. Guys are kinda stupid because they wont ask a girl out if they think their gonna get turned down. That's why us girls have to flirt. Plus, flirting is fun, and you'll be surprised at how many guys will like you once you turn it up a notch. Its amazing. plus You shouldnt be Self concious since a lot of guys think your hot. I mean your obviously not ugly. so stop thinking it, because guys can sense when girls are insecure, and its a turn off to them. just be yourself, and dont care what anyone thinks.
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HectorJr answered Monday December 4 2006, 8:05 pm:
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