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what should i do next?
me and my bf for two months had a really big fight the other day, he saw me just talking to some guy and he assumes i am flirting he says that his friends tell him that i flirt alot to. so since i dint have a chance to tell him how i felt when we fought, i texted him telling him how i felt about him and at the end of the text i said (u dont have to reply if you dont want to)and he dint reply now in school we dont talk but we have not broken up. i dont want to go up to him cos i feel i have done my part, what does he want? and what shall i do?
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He doesnt want you to do anything specifically. Most probably he is just mad.
So what happens next depends a bit on his personality. Some people just need some time to cool off and then they are approachable again. For others (such as myself) time heals no wounds and we can bear grudges for the rest of our lives. Luckily thats the minority.
Either way, what I would do in your situation is to wait a couple of days. If he doesnt speak to you then I would go up and confront him directly. Dont mince words or apologise, just go up to him and ask him if he still wants the two of you to keep going out or if he planned on breaking up. Tell him that you tried to tell him how you feel, but clearly that is of no importance to him.
Otherwise, another option is to get a mutual friend to talk to him. Personally i lean towards the direct approach though. Try and get him in a discussion, not an argument, otherwise even if he forgives you this problem will resurface next time you talk to some guy.
Good luck.
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