Okay so I have a bestfriend, and we're dating these two guys ( who happen to be best friends) works out perfectly huh ? So anyway.. we've been talking about christmas and we all decided to meet at my house the weekend before to exchange gifts. We when we started talking the guys said NO GIFTS ( meaning we cant get them gifts..but they'll get us gifts). This bugs me, Its just I have no idea what to get them + they apprently dont want us to. However I cant take a gift without giving one in exchange. Well we all started arguing me & my bestfriend against our boyfriends.. and now we've called the whole thing off. I really need help, and if we do get them gifts what the heck do we get? WE've been dating for about 5 months and Im f/14
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? angie91 answered Sunday December 3 2006, 5:26 pm: Well, Guys for some reason dont like getting gifts. I'm not sure why. They just like being macho you know. Anyways, I think you should make him something. Buy him a frame and put a picture of you in it. That would be really cute, or you could just make him a card. Then you are listening to his wishes, but still doing something to let him know that you care. Just find something small, and cute and sentimantal and then he wont be too upset that you bought him something, but you are still showing that you care.
You can make him something special, or think of something that he needs in his room, like a picture or poster for the wall. Or something else that he needs to decorate his room. Or heres one thing you can do. Get together with your female friend, and make like 7 dozen cookies for christmas and make up two plates to give to your boyfriends. Then they can eat them, and its not that big of a deal. also, that way you can say you didnt buy them anything, you just want to hang out and stuff that day, and that way they'll come, and they can eat their gifts and watch a movie with you guys.
If you are creative and do something small theyll like it, and hopefuly wont get too upset. Happy holidays lots of love, from:
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LittleMooCow answered Sunday December 3 2006, 5:24 pm: Why not throw a party...one that wont annoy Mum and Dad
Thats a present but without the physical wrapping and boxes..
Have balloons and sweets and candles. xmas music and lots off cool stuff ^^
Or arrange a day out too pay for it.
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