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Ok I know its not a question or anything, but I just wanted to say thanks it really helped, Sarah.
Actually there is something on my mind, my friend keeps asking me if i am mad at her and i'm not sure what to say b/c she has already apollogized 4 not telling me,and she is always telling me that he chose me and that there is never going to be a right guy 4 her b/c they all come to me first.How do I boost up her confidence in finding that right guy?
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Well, you should tell her not to worry about dating right now. I know you told me you were fifteen, so I'm going to gues shes about the same age. And you know for some people, dating comes when you are 12 or 14 or 17 it doesnt matter. It happens when you are ready, and if you rush it then you arent going to enjoy it. I'm fifteen, and I havent had a boyfriend yet, and I don't reallycare. Mostly it's just a status thing and it's all about numbers, like, ohh I got my first kiss when I was 13, that kind of thing, it shouldnt matter what age you are, because it doesnt when you get older, life will go on if you are fifteen and you havn't had six boyfriends yet. So just tell your friend that she needs to wait until the time is right, and she'll find the perfect guy. Yeah sometimes it sucks watching your friends holding hands or your crushes being taken away by their girlfriends, but thats life, sometimes you don't get exactly what you want when you like it, but if you accept the fact that thats the cards you got dealt sooner or later, you will find what, or who, you are looking for. I know that none of that aplies to you because you have a boyfriend, which is really great, and I'm glad it works for you, but if your friend feels that way, then you should just tell her that the best gifts are those you had to wait for.
As far as her being worried about you being upset, tell her that you could never be upset with her over something like that, and that you're bestfriends, and if you were upset with her you'd let her know. Tell her that it sucks that she kept that hidden from you for so long, and that you want her to tell you these things, thats what best friends are for, right?
I hope that I gave you some ideas on helping with your friend. Good luck and I'm here if you need me! Lots of love,
Angie91
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