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ii NEED PARENTS APPROVAL
okay so heres the deal.
im a 15/f and i recently met this boy named joe and hes a senior hes 17 and he'll be 18 in january. we've become really close in the past few days, hes drove me to school a few times and hes been over to meet my mom. everything seemd to be fine until i asked to have joe over for a day this weekend. and my mom starts going off on me because hes an older boy! and i've been trying to explain to her that we're just friends and nothing more! and that i kno what im doing! but she wont believe me she cant get over the fact that hes an "older boy". it makes me soo up set! how can i get my parents to approve of me hangin out with joe? please help soon!
thank you
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well, you can tell your mom that onces hes 18, if he tries anything with you, shell be able to put him in jail for statutory rape. that might make her ease up a bit.
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It seems like your mom has the idea that you're dating or going to be dating him seeing how he has met your parents. I think that being "older" doesn't always have negative thoughts. I had an ex that was 15 and I was 17 (at the time). Her parents became to trust me because I presented myself well, and I promised to look after and be there for her. In a way, Joe will have to present himself well...and you will too. I know I used a relationship ancedote there, but this applies when you are female and you just have an older male friend too.
Just wait a little while longer before you start to bring boys (Joe) to the house. Like I said before, in the teen years, that usually means that you're dating or thinking about dating him since he's meeting the family. Make sure that your intentions are clear with your mom, and make sure about Joe's too. Communication is the key here.
Hope that helps out.
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