Question Posted Thursday November 30 2006, 8:30 pm
okay i have a big dilema!
so i was talking to this 16 yr old guy and he tells me he really likes me i like this kid a lot we have been talking for like 4 months now and there is this other girl who likes the same guy but the guy always insists that he hates her and he would never go out with her shes ugly blah blah blah he tells me how pretty i am n how much he likes me and that he loves me i really have feelings for the kid and now two days ago i find out that hes going out with the girl he always use to say was ugly! im heartbroken i've been upset all day and i dont kno what to do
PLEASE HELP!
is there anything i can say to him.
like i dont want to act obsessive but you no.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Alexandkendra answered Thursday November 30 2006, 9:10 pm: Ah, im so sorry.
But im going to teach you a little lesson ive learned.
Becuase Ive been in a situation, kinda similar to this.
Guys will say anything ,just for your reaction.
Most guys are 2 faced and it sucks.
But what I think you should do is, ignore him for a bit.
I know your still gonna have feelings for him, but think it wont last forever, and they are gonna break up sooner or later.
And then maybe when they are broken up , he might give you a chance.
And he should realize what bad things hes doing and he should come to his senses as he matures.
But dont stop talking to him, then he will think you hate him.
Just hint around the things he used to say to you, but dont make it too obvoius.
Everything should work out, just dont think about the bad things about him , just the good memories.
And remember, time is everything.
Everything takes time, so wait it out :]
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