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confused on what to do//guy situation
alright, so...theres this guy(of course). and well i've never been so confused in my entire life. atleast with guys before i KNOW how they feel. i like this guy alot, he reminds me of my first love and so i fell hard, real fast. anyways, so we used to be really good friends and then we were kind of just like aquaintences (sp?) and now we're pretty good friends again. we walk to class together to like 5th and 7th and he waits for me after class and then walks me to my locker after school then yesterday he walked me half way to my car when he wasnt even going to his yet. i just dont know. were supposed to go to lunch tomorrow, just us to. and we talked about it today to have a meeting place because he just gets out of football and it gets confusing. so we were talking tonight and i was like 'get excitedddd i've decided where we're going to go, but you'll be surprised!' and he was like 'for what?' and i was like 'for lunch tomorrow...' and he was like 'who said WE were going to lunch?' and i was like 'you did...' and he was like 'oh ok its cool' so um wtf.. and then he IMed me later to ask me something about homework and i was trying to help him and then he just like stopped replying then signed off a little later. at school we are together so much but today after 7th when we were walking my friend came up and he was like 'so i hear yall are dating now!' and i was like 'what..' and the guy i liked was like 'hah noo..' in like an awkward embarrased voice AND THEN my friend was like 'oh well thats what shes been saying' WTF it was soooo embarrasing because he's like friends with my brother so he's over a lot and teases me about it but he said this infront of him and it was so embarrasing because um i never said that and i think it scared him away. anyways....ideas and advice to tell if he likes me because this is tiring and at this point im just ready to take it or leave it. thanks so much! sorry this is long
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Hey am I wrong or did I already answer this question? Anyway, my advice is to move on for a while and give him space. Be friendly, but don't limit yourself to only him. He may have just been caught off guard, or really just sees you as a friend only. Either way is okay, because he is not the only guy in the world...there are million of potential men out there for you! I would actually tell him in a very mature voice that you thought that little incident was funny and that it was cute how he got all embarrassed. Tell him that you are cool with being just friends. He will be less nervous that way, and more open to continuing where you left off. Just don't put all your hope into this one guy. Love may or may not bloom here, but the good news is that you are not rooted and can move on when needed!
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