Question Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 10:30 am
well, I've told her time and time again that she means nothing to me, I've known this person longer than I've known my girlfriend, so she suspects differently... but she never bugged me this much before either... it's starting to get on my nerves... she is also somewhat a mutual friend, as in my girlfriend knows her on the game World of Warcraft that we both play, and likes her as a person... she just thinks it's suspicious that I would talk to her knowing what she is, and thinks I find it attractive... of course this isn't true, and I've expressed that, but because I have answered texts and a call recently, it shows my girlfriend that I WANT to talk to her... I felt sick to my stomach when she called and should have taken my own stomachs advice... I know my girlfriend is insecure about this and jealous, but I'm not going to allow it to continue, there's no need, and I just want to tell my friend in the most tactful way to back off. Not just because my girlfriend is suspicious, but mainly because I don't want anything getting in the way of our happiness.
Additional info, added Wednesday November 29 2006, 10:33 am: I'm not ending the friendship... I just want more space. oh, and the reason she knows, is because we tell each other everything, we have a 100% honest relationship... it sometimes causes problems, but we can trust each other.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Patron_saint_of_Squirrels answered Wednesday November 29 2006, 10:46 am: Alright..
Well, I would sugguest Focusing more on your girlfriend, letting her know that you love her, why you love her, and that you would never leave her. If this girl Keeps calling and texting you, I"d sugguest just ignoring it, and not answering your phone, or any IM's, and if she gets mad and asks you why ur not answering her, just tell her you dont appreciate this, and just be persistant with telling her to stop calling and such.
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