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This boy
I'm 13/f and I've been crushing on this really cool guy and he's been with two girls not to long ago and trust me he's real nice and my friend and I made a deal that she would tell him tomorrow how I feel. And I have a feeling we would be sitting next to each other too since he dosn't have a girlfriend. I'm scared if he's gonna like me or not. And if my friends tell me to go sit by him I'm really shy so I usually say no what can I do to stop with being to shy before tomrrow?
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D-O-N-T do the picture the person in the underwear thing. That would be disturbing in this case.
If you think you feel your face turning red say "I AM A KUNG FU PENGUIN!" over and over again in your head to take your mind off of it.
Don't pratice what you're gonna say to him. That's over doing it and it's just plain creepy.
There's no way to stop being shy, but if you start to feel uncomfortable, ask the teacher to let you go to the restroom or something.
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He is just a guy, so remind yourself that he is not some prince or fantasy man. He does gross guy things, says stupid stuff, probably would piss you off if you knew everything he said and did, and he is lucky to have someone as cute and cool as you to give him your time and affection. Confidence is more sexy to a guy than shyness, so if you are serious about winning him over, then stop acting like a girl and act like a young woman who is worth looking at twice. Turn on the charm and show no mercy, because you don't get many chances to make an impression.
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The best thing is to just relax. Maybe talk to him beforehand and get the flow going. If find something in common to talk to him about then there won't be any problems. If you talk to him before you sit by him you won't feel the tension. Also if you have that conversation before hand he will for sure sit by you to finish it but if he doesn't you have something to talk to him about.
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