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he can't make up his mind
me and this guy have been talking for a long time and we're kinda friends with benifits but we're not the all the way benifits like i'm still a virgin and i mean i love him and sometimes i think he loves me but theres times when i think he's just after you know what how can i tell if a guy is true to me or not and how do i find out if he wants to be with me or not and not by just asking him becasue he says he wants to keep movin at the pase we're moving at now and see what happens......
signed dazed and confused
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let me guess he sort of plays mind games i hate those kind of people ok well first you gotta think you guys have been talking for a long time and he doesnt what to take the next in the relationship but hes willing to be friends with benifits but nothing more is there a difference expect the title if you to were to go out, i think that you need to get some answers before you fall any deeper and ask why do you to only have to be friends with beneifits you know usally people who only want to be friends with benifits usally only want to keep there options open you know
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it takes two people to be in a relationship,and if he dosnt respect what your point of view is in the relatonship then hes just after sex.do what you gotta do girl !
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You may be moving at a slow pace, but you started in the wrong place! You should never agree to be in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy you want to be in a real relationship with. Now you have to go back and start at the beginning. It's nice to get something from the guy you like, but it's only a very short term reward. To find out if he really cares about you or not you're going to have to stop being physical with him for awhile and see if you can get a real relationship going. Basically, you need to give him an ultimatum. If he can't do that, you'll know that he is just in it for the sex. He may protest and complain a lot, but if he goes along with it, that's a good sign that he really does care about you. Being in a relationship isn't the next level, it was the first one and you skipped right over it! If you find out that he doesn't care, don't waste any more time on him. You haven't fallen for him completely yet. Don't let yourself do that until you are sure. Good luck. :)
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