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Is thinking about older guys a bad thing?
My homeroom teacher in 6th grade was hott. When I say it like that, I MEAN IT EXACTLY THE WAY IT IS. I don't date guys my age and have never had a boyfriend. I've been asked a few times, but I never agreed. I'm alwayd crushing on the older, OLDER guys. HELP!!!
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Wow. Well, this isn't much of an unusual case, but kind of hard for me. It isn't a serious problem. Have you ever looked at a man FULLY before? From the tip of the head, down to the heel of the feet? Think about that a little bit. Think, think, think... is that what you want to be the wife of? Is that image still in your mind? Picture it. Picture you when you're about 20, standing next to a 40 year old man in a tux, while you're holding a bouquet of flowers in your hands and a veil over your head. Keep the picture in your mind. Is this a reason for you to have not had a boyfriend throughout elementary and junior high? You didn't include your age, though, so I'll speak generally. I'm not trying to insult anyone reading for not having a boyfriend of an older age, or if they've never had a boyfriend yet. But think about this... try to imagine your kids. If you go on, attracted to men over your limit, picture your kids. Picture (sorry if it's a little personal) your sex life with him. Would you be able to go on like that? Don't worry much about it, because this is probably just a "long-while phase". But really try your best to understand. If this isn't a phase, you need to get over it. I'm trying my best to choose the right words and lay it out gently. But as much as I try, boo, these are the real facts. It's a harsh world out there. You'll get insulted, offended, and tore down if you insist.
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