SO me and my boyfriend have been on a "break" 2monthes and I just want to be with him but he says "I dont want a girlfriend, but if an when I do like you'll be the first girl I come to because you have the whole package"! Well im confused because he says this stuff an then like other night I stayed the night with him an we had sex. But yeah you know it confuses me, And like honestly I have no idea what to do but I should just demand an answer. But like jealousy wouldnt work if you tried doin that to him he just would be done, I guess thats why he has stayed talkin to me for 2monthes now. An I think thats what he expects but ive not done that yet so he is holding on to me. But really tonight I told him I wanna talk so what should I say, Because I really want an answer!!
ductape_n_roses answered Sunday November 26 2006, 8:34 pm: I think --from what I've read-- he's not ready to make a commitment and he still wants to fool around considering that he wants to have sex with you but not have a gf.
You should say something about chosing between losing you or keeping you. If he wants to fool around he will lose you and if he wants to keep you he should settle down and not make you feel like you're his friend with benefits. [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
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