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Question Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 12:42 pm

well, i was with my boyfriend for 9 months. He is my first love. But we recently broke up. were still talking and stuff. We broke up because i lied before, and he has this thing with flirting with every girl and thinking hes always right. Well the reason i lied was because i was afraid to loose him, but then i did loose him so i said i wouldnt lie to him again. But he just doesnt seem to care. Like one minute he'll tell me he loves me and wants to be with me still. Then the next hes all i dont know if i want to be with you again. And he like is out partying with all these girls. And my sister keeps telling me hes playing me. But i could never see him doing that. And people are always telling me he messed around with alot of girls. I love him so much, But it hurts me to feel like he doesnt care, and hes out with all these girls. What should i do? Should i move on, Or keep trying.

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careless-fun answered Sunday November 26 2006, 3:48 pm:
I am a guy and I have seen this happen so many times. When I guy tells you he doesn't know if he wants to be with you that means he doesn't want to be with you. It doesn't matter if he sometimes tell you that he loves you. All it takes is for him to tell you that he doesn't want to be with you once and his actions will follow. If he is out partying with other girls then he doesn't care that much about your feelings. The best thing to do is move on. You seem like a nice girl and I think you deserve much better.

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ductape_n_roses answered Sunday November 26 2006, 1:53 pm:
Love makes us blind and it seems like you're trying to deny the reality. If he is a player (from what you've said he sounds like one) you're better moving on. If he flirted with other girls while you were his girlfriend, he has problems. You deserve better than him so I suggest for you to move on and find a better guy.

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