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i just wanna be admired or..loved.
i dont know.. lately i just feel like i really wanna be called beautiful.. or smart..or just anything positive, i feel like i really need to hear something good about myself or hear someone tell me they love me, or atleast admire me or something.. thats weird, right? like i feel kinda lonely, and unappreciated. and i dont know what to do to get rid of this feeling. its like i cant feel goood about myself unless someone tells me im good. and i cant feel beautiful unless someone tells me im beautiful. and i cant feel smart unless someone tells me im smart. you get the picture right?
so what do i do about it??
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there are alot of people who feel the same way.
but...you can be a leech and always suck the strenght of off other people or you may become your own best friend. im willing to bet that you never have someshing good to say to yourself. stop it, and start telling yourself the things you want to hear.
"£$% everybody else, theres not always going to be people around to pick you up, so learn to do it yourself.
do EVERYTHING and ANYTHING to build your self esteem, even if you have to go for therapy. it WILL be worth it, and you ARE worth the effort.
sorry if i sound a bit harsh, best of luck to you.
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i think that your problem would definately be a self esteem issue. You cant feel good about your self unless someone else says it too you. Im not entirely sure what your question is, but if you want to try to get over this issue, try making a list of everythign you like about your self, even include the small or stupid things. Then, every time you feel like you need to be admired or told you are pretty, just look at the list, i sure it will help make you feel better. You also might want to try talking to your parents, a friend, or someone else you trust, because they will probably be able to help
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ok so your problem is definitely not that people don't tell u ur smart and beautiful, she just have wicked low self esteem. It doesn't matter how pretty or smart you are unless you are proud of yourself and have confidence. Try your best, don't be shy and if you work hard you'll be noticed and appreciated.
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