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would i lose my viginity if i get fingered??
I'm realy worried about losing my virginity, because I will get married in a few years and my boyfriend wants me to keep my virginity for him.. -he has made such a big deal about it as he wants to pop it himself- but I do get fingered and this is the big question?? Have i lost my viginity because of that? would the hymen possibly breake thro' fingering?
One more thing.. apart from bleeding at first sex as the hymen breakes, what would make a girle bleed??
I would seriously appre'ciate you if you can please answer my question. Im really both'rd.
Many thanks.
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Your virginity has nothing to do with your hymen. You are a virgin until you have sex - it's as simple as that.
Many girls tear or break their hymens in childhood or during the early teens without even realizing it. Some keep their hymens even AFTER sex - sex merely stretching it out. Basically, everyone's body is different. The hymen is nothing more than a bit of skin, and when/how it breaks/stretches/tears varies. This is normal.
As for the blood, some people do have a bit of spotting when they first have sex. Many women don't have bleeding at all. Just like with the hymen, this depends on the individual.
Fingering could tear the hymen. If your boyfriend's nails are long or have rough edges, he may also have nicked your vaginal skin. And let's not discount periods - if you're bleeding, the date and whether or not your period is expected should be the first thing you check.
Bleeding every time your vagina is penetrated is not a good thing, nor is heavy bleeding at any time (aside from your period). If either of these things is happened, it's best to be checked out by a doctor.
One thing you and your boyfriend can be assured of - neither or you will notice whether your hymen is intact or not. You may notice pain or discomfort (and hopefully pleasure!), while he'll be too busy noticing what sex feels like!
Best of luck.
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