I'm 16/f and I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world and i know he loves me that much too. When we are together we have such an awesome time and I can really see how much he is in love with me. The problem is that he is always so busy, he works a lot and does lots of work on boats around our harbour and owns two boats of his own which he also has to maintain. Apart from that he's always helping out in his family and other people but it just sometimes seems like he doesn't have time for me. He tells me he would much rather be with me than be working. Not only working but he also is busy with other things too. For example this week I've seen him twice for about 2 hours each time and he had to go out after that. I go over to visit him but he's never there and is always busy. We really get annoyed that we don't get much time together and sometimes I just don't feel loved. Like right now, this morning, even though he told me last night he loved me I know he does but sometimes I just feel like he doesn't. Even though I KNOW he does. Please help, what do I do?!
Additional info, added Monday November 20 2006, 4:00 am: I'm pretty depressed this question hasn't been answered yet but...Do you think I should tell him that sometimes I don't feel loved?? I'm scared of what he'll say.
Thanks. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lostinpraise answered Monday November 20 2006, 12:01 pm: Yeah I think you should talk to him. Tell him that you appreciate he's busy and has a life of his own, but as your boyfriend, he's made a commitment to you, and needs to give you some priority in his life. Talk it through togeother and work out some good times when you want to see each other and maybe it'll involve both of you making little sacrifices, but he needs to decide how important your relationship is to him. If you're feeling unloved even though he tells you, the relationship won't survive long, talk to him! [ lostinpraise's advice column | Ask lostinpraise A Question ]
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